Allegations Of Abuse?
Prevention &Survival

jodee kulp allegation trainer Judy Wadsworth and Jodee Kulp trainers for Allegations in Foster, Adoptive and Kinship Care judy wadsworth

by Jodee Kulp and Judy Howell Wadsworth
workshops | writing | keynotes

Yes, it is an emotional
Merry-Go-Round

These are common immediate reactions

FLEE

FIGHT

FREEZE

  • Isolation

  • Attempted Escape

  • Using mood altering drugs

  • Passive-Aggressive

  • Externally directed aggression

  • Statements made under high emotions

  • lLack of problem solving skills

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  • Problem is pushed inward

  • Negative self talk can be very damaging

Healthy Fleeing

Healthy
Fighting

Healthy
Freezing

  • Time out for self

  • Humorous book

  • Walk

  • Hot bath

  • Weekend away

  • Knowledge is Power

  • Legal Counsel (consider prepaid legal aid program)

  • Discuss with support person or liaison

Common feelings you will have if you face an allegation

Life Is Unfair!
Say it! It's OK! Say it Again.
Bad Things Do Happen to Good People!

No matter how bad your heart is broken
the world doesn't stop for your grief.

Workshops available for Agencies and Associations
Foster Families, Adoptive Parents and Kinship Caregivers

Brief program overview

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It is not intended to convey legal, educational, medical or professional advice. We recommend you find your own local professional who can work with you.

 

 

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Making connections to promote restoration and renewal for families and children in crisis and trauma to bridge understanding of FASD. This site does not replace professional medical, legal, nutritional or educational counsel. 
The information contained within this website are ideas that have worked for families with FASD members and you must use common sense, your intimate knowledge of your child, professional advise and safety
in making appropriate decisions.  
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